Three sexual psychological problems of adolescent men and women

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Both men and women will experience the arrival of puberty. Puberty is generally between 15 and 20 years old. During this period, we will be curious about everything, especially in the aspect of sex. Even some adolescent men and women will face some adolescent sexual problems. Although the topic of sex is a very private issue, puberty is still a hot topic Men and women should also have a correct understanding of it, so as not to have too much impact on learning. So what are the three major sexual psychological problems for adolescent men and women?

Three sexual psychological problems of adolescent men and women

First, the deviation of sexual cognition and the perplexity of sexual impulse. According to the survey, many teenagers have an incorrect understanding of "sex". Some regard it as obscene, dirty and shameful. They are hard to talk about it and are at a loss as to what to do. As a result, they feel ashamed, remorseful, distressed and confused about their sexual impulses, and have disgust and fear. In fact, sexual impulse is a normal physiological and psychological reaction of young men and women. It is produced under the action of sex hormones and related external stimulation, and it is not impure, immoral or shameful behavior. If the youth who have the above incorrect views do not wake up in time, it will cause psychological barriers. Therefore, the sexual impulse depends on the sexual morality to restrain themselves and take feasible methods to adjust. For example, it is a very effective way to use the method of inner repression to solve the sexual impulse. Moderate repression is not only the need of socialization, but also the reflection of a person's sexual mental health. However, severe depression is harmful to physical and mental health. In addition, sexual desire can be replaced by a positive and constructive desire or way that can be accepted by the society, such as painting, music, sports, labor, or friendship between men and women, so as to transfer sexual energy and balance sexual emotion. This method is sublimation.

Second: sexual anxiety. It is generally believed that young men and women's psychological contradictions, conflicts and all kinds of sexual maladjustment may cause sexual anxiety. This kind of sexual anxiety mainly refers to the anxiety of one's own body, one's own sexual role and one's own sexual function. As a person matures through physical development, he will often feel uneasy about his body in adolescence. Young men want to be tall and strong, young women want to be slim and beautiful. If some young men feel that they are short and thin, they will feel inferior; while some young women feel that they are too fat and plain, they will also feel distressed. Some young men are very sensitive to the development of their genitals and young women to the size of their breasts. Some young men and women even worry about the black and white of their skin and the "acne" on their faces. In addition, some young people worry about whether their psychological behavior is consistent with their sexual role. Some young men feel that they lack masculine temperament; some young women feel that they are not gentle and careful enough. So some young people have the idea of "over compensation". For example, in order to make themselves more like men, some young men pretend to be deep, or show bold and rude behavior, or even fight and take risks. The above kinds of sexual anxiety have great influence on the sexual psychological development of adolescent men and women, and often affect their daily life and the whole mental state. The way to adjust is to improve it through sex education and sexual counseling. One of the most important is to make them establish a healthy aesthetic, accept their own reality, do not blame others, to develop strengths and circumvent weaknesses, for their own sexual physiology, psychological doubts, should seek counseling and help from a psychologist in time, not alone sensitive and suspicious, self seeking trouble.

Third: spermatorrhea and dysmenorrhea. It is found that some young men have incorrect cognition and psychological reaction to spermatorrhea. Whenever spermatorrhea occurs, they feel uneasy, distressed, confused, ashamed and afraid. In fact, spermatorrhea is the manifestation of sexual maturity of young men and the normal psychological phenomenon of unmarried young men. Because when men enter puberty, their testicles begin to produce sperm, reaching a peak around the age of 18-20, "when they are full of sperm, they will overflow.".

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The above content introduces the three major sexual psychological problems of adolescent men and women, which should be paid attention to. I hope the above introduction can bring some help to adolescent men and women. We should not be too curious about the development of adolescence, as long as we develop good living habits, pay attention to personal hygiene, and participate in more school sports activities,