Weaned a week how to return a responsibility

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My 1-year-old and 4-month-old son was weaned at last. Summing up the whole process, I had to put weaning on the agenda due to my son's excessive love for milk and its influence on development. After a few days of weaning, my child and I adapted very well. The whole process was much smoother than I expected. Our mother and son were pretty good in all aspects. I have some experience to share with you.

Weaned a week how to return a responsibility

First, I think the symbol of successful weaning should be seen from both mother and child. The mother can return to the milk smoothly, without getting mastitis and other diseases. The mother looks at the second separation of mother and son naturally, without too much loss after weaning. The child no longer sucks milk, has a good diet and sleep, and has no physical fire, fever, diarrhea and other diseases caused by weaning, no psychological fear caused by weaning, and no sequelae such as crying at night after weaning.

Second: according to the international breast milk Association, breastfeeding is supported for two years or more. Now the general practice is to wean within one year old, and some can wean later, or even feed up to three years old. The results of weaning are mainly related to the implementation process of weaning. I think that when a child is over 1 year old, if breast milk affects the child's normal diet, sleep, concentration or independence, cutting off the milk is more beneficial to both mother and child. If there is no such problem and the mother can have the energy and physical strength to continue to feed, it is also good to keep breastfeeding until the natural weaning. In terms of season, it is generally recommended to wean in spring and autumn, because autumn is easy to get autumn diarrhea, so spring is better. Of course, weaning and doing other things, we should also pay attention to the opportunity, pay attention to the favorable time, place and people. For example, our children are too much in love with milk during this period of time, and they are not interested in all complementary foods, so that they have to take milk every 20 minutes when they are serious, which seriously affects their diet, health and their concentration and independence when playing games, so I decided to wean them. At first, the family didn't support it. First, the father didn't want to wean the child. Later, he saw that the child was always relying on this mouthful and didn't eat well, so he agreed to wean. At the beginning, grandma was also distressed for her child's crying and didn't want me to wean her. She had a bad heart and I was afraid that she would get sick in a hurry. After my mother talked to my aunt who was a doctor, my aunt said that if she didn't wean her baby again, she agreed to wean. In this way, the views of the whole family were more unified, I immediately implemented weaning, with the support of the whole family, the implementation of weaning was relatively smooth.

Third: I think weaning can't be impatient, and it's even necessary to beat drums for children in advance, telling them that when they grow up, they will have no milk to eat, so that children can have a psychological preparation. Our child is like this, because he is more than one year old and four months old, and he knows a lot of things. He should also understand what he said to him. When it comes to formal weaning, I also wean in sections. On the first day, I weaned him for part of the day. I let him drink for a while at night, but I didn't give him any at night. I saw that although he was crying, he was not very strong. He just hummed and hawed. I didn't cry when I hugged him, so I didn't let him eat any more. I've seen some mothers secretly give their children some milk three nights ago. Ha ha, it's good to do so. In a word, the process should be mild and acceptable to children. In addition, mild weaning will reduce the damage to the breast. It is said that weaning is especially fast, and if the milk rises very much, the breast may droop, ha ha.

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There is a lot of information on the Internet, each has its own words, because each has its own weaning environment, and the situation of each child is not the same, so we can't be partial, we should make decisions according to our own actual situation, and we should feed back our good practices, ha ha.