Not happy sex life on wedding night, lack of preparation?

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It's a problem that many newlyweds will encounter that they don't have a happy sex life on their wedding night. It's said that "a moment in the spring is worth a thousand dollars". But objectively speaking, the first intercourse of newlyweds may not be successful. Although the penis can be smoothly inserted into the vagina, it may not achieve sexual harmony and satisfaction. The reasons for this failure are as follows.

Not happy sex life on wedding night, lack of preparation?

First: lack of preparation before sexual intercourse: due to women's slower sexual reaction than men, and women's more reserved and shy nature, especially when they first contact with male genitalia, if the groom is eager or even rude to vent his sexual desire, it is bound to lead to the failure of sexual life. For example, before sexual intercourse, do more preparation work to stimulate the bride's sexual desire, such as hugging, touching, kissing and other flirting actions. When arousing the bride's sexual impulse, sexual intercourse can get the psychological and physical satisfaction of both sides.

Second: lack of understanding of the bride's reproductive organs: the female vagina is a muscle elastic tube with good extensibility. Why does it sometimes happen that the penis can not be inserted into the vagina? The original tension of the vaginal orifice is affected by the hymen and the muscle ring of the vaginal orifice. With the insertion of the penis for the first time, the hymen is topped and the tension contraction of the vaginal orifice makes the penis inserted It's difficult to get in.

Third: the body is too tired: newlyweds often have to go through very hard preparation work before marriage, and they have to be nervous and busy to welcome and see off guests on the wedding day. In the evening, some friends make a fuss about their bridal chamber. Therefore, the bride and bridegroom in the bridal chamber are already exhausted, and their mental state is at a low ebb or uneasy. If coupled with the lack of sexual knowledge, it is difficult to achieve harmonious and happy sex life.

matters needing attention

Female hymen atresia and vaginal septum and other genital abnormalities can not make the penis inserted into the vagina, at this time should go to the hospital for surgical treatment.