How to solve the quarrel between husband and wife?

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As the saying goes, "a quarrel at the head of the bed and a quarrel at the end of the bed", if two people live together, there will inevitably be friction and conflict. And how you deal with it is the most important thing. So when you quarrel with her (him), how to deal with it intelligently?

How to solve the quarrel between husband and wife?

First, the cold war must be dealt with in a timely manner. The cold war caused by quarrels must be dealt with in a timely manner. If it drags on, it will easily affect your next life. After a long period of time, the cold war will develop into a habitual cold war. If the other side does not bow down and give in, will it always be like this? When one side is completely disappointed with the other side, the cold war will develop into cold violence, and it will be very difficult to deal with it at that time.

Second: one of them has to put down his position to accommodate the marriage. In the final analysis, it means that two people live together after seeing each other. If each party refuses to put down his position to accommodate the other party, why are they still living together. Therefore, if there is a cold war in a quarrel, one can not always give up one's position to accommodate the other. It must take turns, right or wrong. After all, after accommodation, two people will naturally know who is right and who is wrong when they return to rationality.

Third: listen to more people's opinions and suggestions. Sometimes quarrels are inevitable, so we should minimize the impact of quarrels. After a quarrel, if both sides still feel justified, there will be a cold war. At this time, rational you should ask some people's opinions and let others analyze who is right and who is wrong. If it's your fault, admit it quickly.

matters needing attention

Don't let the phrase "first impressions matter" mislead you. Because even if we get uncertain information, people tend to stick to their initial judgment, and it is difficult to think from a new perspective. When you realize that you and your partner have different opinions, tell yourself that you will wait until you understand the problem.