How to change the timid character

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Timidity means that no matter what happens, even if it's right, you don't dare to stand up and say it, worrying about other people's trouble. Most people who are afraid of things have low self-esteem, dare not show themselves in front of everyone, and are even afraid of dealing with people. Timid people may have been bullied when they were young. They may have been bullied directly or indirectly. In the past, they don't believe that they have the ability to confront other people from the bottom of their heart. I don't hate being timid, but I despise people who don't try to change. Now let's talk about it.

How to change the timid character

First: how to change the timid character? It's useless to talk more about theoretical knowledge, but the real change still needs practical action. The actual action is not to ask him to pick things, but to let him believe in himself from the bottom of his heart. First, find the person's merit and carry it forward, and then create an opportunity for him to show it in public. Applause is the key to treatment.

Second: let timid people do more good deeds. Simple things are OK. Thanks from others are also an important factor to increase confidence. After a long time, he will learn to stand up for others, not only to do things, but also to reason. Many of us will ask our friends to stand up, but we are often timid when we are in trouble, but it doesn't matter. At this point, we are very close to victory.

Third: try to exercise, go to public places to participate in activities, more contact with the crowd, strong heart also need a strong body, but also more reading. What's the fear of a person who starts to be strong both physically and mentally? At the same time, a helpful person will have many friends, and the strength behind him will make him brave.

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It's very difficult to change, but it's also very simple. It depends on whether you have the ability to act. You don't need to be deliberate. You just need to start from small things, from helping others to helping yourself, from strong mind to strong body. It's not so difficult to change your timid personality. I hope everyone can face up to all the difficult things and people in life.