Causes of social phobia in adolescence

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Adolescence, originally a childish age, has a group of close friends, but also countless students with good relations. However, there are a number of adolescent children, for social can be said to feel no happiness, they like to be alone, for making friends only infinite fear. So, what's the reason for this social phobia in adolescence? Next, I'll give you a brief introduction.

Causes of social phobia in adolescence

First: cognitive bias: in people's psychological process, cognition is the foundation, directly affects and determines the emotion and will, and dominates the behavior orientation. Correct cognition will produce healthy emotion and will; wrong cognition will lead to negative emotion, will and bad behavior. After entering adolescence, the helpers have some normal sexual fantasies and sexual desire requirements, but they also use the adult's moral concept and code of conduct to demand themselves, condemn their own ideas, and have wrong ideas about interpersonal cognition. As a result, they are afraid that others will see their "problems" from their eyes, and dare not use their eyes to communicate with others.

Second: personality defect: personality is a stable attitude system and a habitual way of behavior. It is an important part of personality structure. Good personality can change and make up for some negative factors of temperament, which is of positive significance to life. Good character is the basic guarantee of physical and mental health, on the contrary, bad character not only seriously affects interpersonal relationship, people's growth and progress, but also is very harmful to physical and mental health, easy to lead to mental illness. There are many defects in the character of the help seeker, such as too introverted, self closed personality, depression, too dependent on family, which have a very negative effect on interpersonal relationship.

Third: lack of ability: lack of interpersonal skills is also one of the reasons that affect interpersonal relationship. Due to the growth environment and personality reasons, the help seeker is very lack of interpersonal skills. At ordinary times, he doesn't like to talk, and he seldom contacts with people. He often comes and goes alone, and has few people. He is not good at dealing with people, and he lacks this kind of training. Although he sometimes hopes to communicate with his classmates and improve his relationship, he doesn't know how to do it, resulting in a strong sense of inferiority and fear. And he is in the "storm" period of adolescence, and the "problem of vision" has become the inducement for him to avoid the fear of communication.

matters needing attention

Adolescence interpersonal relationship is not handled well, is a lot of adolescent children will appear psychological problems. Adolescence is also a good time for character cultivation and shaping. If you can't properly solve your social phobia, it will have a certain impact on future communication and mental health.