Men have three misunderstandings about premature ejaculation. Rapid ejaculation does not necessarily mean premature ejaculation
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Premature ejaculation is the most common ejaculation dysfunction, incidence rate of 1/3 above adult men. The definition of premature ejaculation is still controversial. It is usually evaluated by men's ejaculation latency or women's frequency of reaching orgasm during sexual intercourse. For example, if men lose the ability to control ejaculation during sexual intercourse, they ejaculate before or just before the penis is inserted into the vagina. Men usually have a sense of crisis about premature ejaculation, so they are easy to misunderstand premature ejaculation. Men have five misunderstandings about premature ejaculation. Fast ejaculation is not necessarily suffering from premature ejaculation.
Men have three misunderstandings about premature ejaculation. Rapid ejaculation does not necessarily mean premature ejaculation
First, it is regarded as premature ejaculation if it can't cause the woman's pleasure of sexual intercourse: the sexual function of men and women has a characteristic of "men's fast and women's slow". Men's performance is rapid erection, and they will soon enter the orgasm and ejaculate; on the contrary, women's performance is slow sexual excitement, which usually takes more than ten minutes or even longer. It's a natural difference, so it's common for men to ejaculate and women to never reach orgasm. To this kind of circumstance, it is a sexual life disharmony problem on sexual intercourse coordination at most.
Second: premature ejaculation in marriage will lead to premature ejaculation all one's life: premature ejaculation is easy to occur in the stage of marriage. There are several reasons: first, sexual excitement will be particularly high in the stage of marriage, full of vision and yearning for sex life, which is fresh and curious, and it is easy to stimulate ejaculation; second, semen accumulation in the sexual organs in the unmarried stage can produce fullness sexual stimulation, and it is easy to ejaculate faster when the marriage happens to have sex life Third, at the beginning of sexual life, the couple has not yet reached the state of satisfactory cooperation, and the sexual function has not fully entered the normal state, which is prone to premature ejaculation; fourth, after all, at the beginning of sexual life, there are some mental and psychological thoughts, such as whether they can do it themselves or not? Is that how it works? Is the woman satisfied? Does masturbation get in the way in the past? wait. This kind of mental factor can interfere with sexual function, causing premature ejaculation is excusable.
Third: once premature ejaculation occurs after long-term non sexual intercourse, worry about their sexual function problems: in fact, there is an inverse relationship between the fast and slow ejaculation time and the length of the interval between sexual intercourse. That is to say, sex is frequent, the interval between each sex is short, and ejaculation occurs slowly during sexual intercourse. On the contrary, there is not much sexual life. Under the condition of "sexual starvation" of long-term asexual life, sexual excitement increases sharply, and ejaculation occurs faster once having sex. Therefore, this kind of premature ejaculation can not be regarded as sexual dysfunction.
matters needing attention
Compared with others, their ejaculation faster is premature ejaculation: This is a big mistake, this kind of comparison with others is completely unnecessary, because everyone's sexual physiological activities are not the same, and the sexual life experience and frequency are not exactly the same, there is no comparability, so don't do it like this.
