The cause of Fetishism: what is the influence of parents?

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Some people have fetishism. The objects they love are different. Some may be toys, some body parts, and even some people's fetishism objects are silk stockings or women's underwear. Fetishism is often associated with voyeurism or sexual perversion, which is unfair to fetishists. Let's talk about the reasons for fetishism.

The cause of Fetishism: what is the influence of parents?

First, the influence of parents. Generally, it has a certain relationship with the family environment. I met a friend who had a serious fetishism and had a strong preference for women's high-heeled shoes before. The reason is that when I was a child, I was a single parent family. I followed my father and saw my mother for the last time. My mother wore a pair of colorful high-heeled shoes. From then on, as long as I saw the high-heeled shoes, I would have a strong desire for possession. As adults, they will have a strong interest in women who wear high-heeled shoes with color phenomenon.

Second: the shadow of childhood. For example: a friend of mine is also in his forties, but he always likes to buy all kinds of transformers. His family is full of transformers of all sizes. There are all kinds of foreign and domestic ones. Later, after deep communication, I learned that when I was a child, my neighbor's condition was better. My little friend had a transformer, but never let him touch it. The lack of childhood psychology and shadow lead to the acquired extreme satisfaction and control.

Third: lack of desire. It is common for people who have strong desire for food. During their growth and development, for some reasons, such as family conditions, they can't eat enough. Although their material life has improved in adulthood, their desire for food is always a state of hunger.

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