How to treat separation anxiety

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Nowadays, there are more and more people suffering from separation anxiety, and they must pay attention to their own maintenance. A psychologist found that if the early separation anxiety is serious, it will reduce the effect of children's intellectual activities, and even affect their future creativity and social adaptability. About half a year before a child enters the kindergarten, parents should prepare from material, psychological, environmental, self-care ability and other aspects. How to treat separation anxiety.

How to treat separation anxiety

First, parents can prepare a familiar doll or pressure blanket for their children. They can also buy pressure vests on the Internet, which can provide children with a sense of security. When the mother is not around, these items can appease the child. Some breast-feeding mothers will make their own clothes as comforting items for their children, because the clothes still retain the smell of breast-feeding.

Second: Psychology 1. You can play hide and seek with your children at home, and let them adapt to not seeing you for a short time by leaving for a short time; 2. Make an appointment with your children, and gradually lengthen the time. Every time you leave, make an appointment with your child and return within the time. Let your child believe that you will return on time next time. Slowly lengthen the time, so that children gradually adapt to leave you for a longer time.

Third: environment. In any case, you should give your child a safe environment. If the child is crying because of his mother's leaving, the mother can go in and comfort him, but it must be quiet, calm and short, mainly to make the child feel at ease. Only when children can feel at ease can they take the initiative to calm down.

matters needing attention

The first three years of life are better than the later stages of development. All of these remind young parents that separation anxiety is only a kind of performance, which shows some mistakes in children's education before the age of three. Therefore, to pay attention to separation anxiety is actually to pay attention to quality education.