The Internet world makes us more lonely

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The main disadvantages are Internet addiction, emotional apathy and online violence. Internet addicts are extremely excited and happy after surfing the Internet. They can't control their behavior after using the Internet for a long time, and often appear anxiety, depression, indifference to interpersonal relationship, emotional fluctuations, irritability and other phenomena.

The Internet world makes us more lonely

First, in terms of understanding your own emotions, "on the Internet, no one knows who you are.". The "loss of identity" of young netizens on the Internet makes them feel more at will and freedom of the Internet, the mutual attack and abuse on the Internet, the unrestrained "online love" and "online marriage", and a large number of pornographic stimulation, all of which easily lead to the dislocation of young people's understanding of emotions, and even serious emotional disorders.

Second, the main disadvantages of self-control are Internet addiction, emotional apathy and online violence. Internet addicts are extremely excited and happy after surfing the Internet. They can't control their behavior after using the Internet for a long time, and often appear anxiety, depression, indifference to interpersonal relationship, emotional fluctuations, irritability and other phenomena. Some fingers will keep moving when they don't surf the Internet. When it's serious, the whole body will tremble, spasm, and fall and destroy objects. Some are trapped too deep to extricate themselves, and even resort to self mutilation, suicide and other means. Emotional apathy is characterized by lack of corresponding emotional response to external stimulation, indifference to relatives and friends, loss of interest in surrounding things, rigid facial expression, lack of inner experience, and indifference to everything in serious cases. The identity of online violence is induced by the values of violence or force to solve the problems in daily life. They think that violence is not all illegal, and even advocate violence. The Internet makes it difficult for teenagers to recognize others' emotions. 31.4% of them don't think it's immoral to lie when chatting online. 37.4% of them think it's no big deal to say rude words online. 24.9% of them think they can do anything online without scruple. There are many people will cultivate the network out of willful, indulgent, lying, irresponsible, unruly habits, also applied to the real society. In cognition, a serious problem is the blind worship of "knowledge hero", who thinks that personal cultivation is unimportant, as long as you learn technology well, you can dominate the world.

Third: in terms of self motivation, solving online game problems can bring teenagers a sense of achievement, which is conducive to the cultivation of self-confidence, optimism and open-minded feelings. However, there is no limit to the challenge of the Internet. It can't solve all the problems on the Internet. Most of the online games end in failure. Repeated setbacks will also make many young people become pessimistic, depressed, negative, and even decadent, depressed, desperate. Many people bring this kind of negative pessimism into their study and life, which has a serious impact on their physical and mental health. In addition, the perishability of information on the Internet leads to the prevalence of young people's short-term behavior. They are tired of the frequent change of information on the Internet. They feel that the world is changing too fast, and they don't know what will happen in the future. As a result, some young people have a tendency to enjoy themselves in time.

matters needing attention

The phenomenon of "online love" and "online marriage" among teenagers is very common. On the Internet, teenagers' casual and irresponsible behaviors such as flirting, transsexual dating and multi angle love often occur, which leads to a series of emotional disputes among teenagers. Some teenagers fall into the network trap and are cheated or accidentally injured.