Why do children often let go

summary

Because of the different physique, everyone often let go of children, the treatment of the entrance will change, there is a saying called "let go is to better rest assured." Not to mention that we should also understand that on the way of parenting, parents need to let go properly. Letting go is for children to have more space to grow up. Parents' wings can not protect children for a lifetime. Children's growth needs tears and sweat. Only experience can grow up. Don't deprive children of the opportunity and space to experience. Why do children often let go.

Why do children often let go

First: if the child wants to accomplish something by himself, please let it go. I remember last week, Guoguo and I said that I wanted to go to kindergarten with my bedding. I asked her, it's very heavy. Can I carry it by myself? He answered yes, so I sent her into the door and gave her the bedding. She couldn't pick up the big bag with her hands, so I carried it on her back, so she hobbled to the second floor and entered the classroom. It was very difficult. I just watched from a distance behind. She needed sweat on the way of growth. Her persistence was very valuable.

Second: if the child has a choice, please let it go. Whether a person's life is happy or not is just a few decades. What kind of life can be regarded as happy? Maybe only happy? Fame and gain can't bring us happiness. Therefore, don't impose your expectations on your child. If your child finds his own interest and makes his own choice, parents should respect his choice. What parents need to do is to give her encouragement and guidance in his life.

Third: if children want to challenge themselves, then please let go. If a child wants to finish a project that he or she would not have done before, parents should let go. Even if there is danger, parents can take protective measures nearby, but they must support him or her. Not everyone has the courage to challenge himself or herself. Our children's bravery deserves our praise.

matters needing attention

Children's circle of friends parents should not too much interference, don't be afraid that children make bad friends, as long as parents guide children to form a correct view of right and wrong, then birds of a feather flock together, children's friends are children with similar interests, we should believe that children can handle their own friend relationship.